It can take a lifetime to pick up just one good quality and drop a bad one. If you can accomplish that your life has been a success. Now you want to become a realized soul. How can a complete u-turn take place in just one lifetime? When you change by using your mind, will power and dedication, you achieve very little, as you are trying to change. On the other hand, once you let go the change takes place from deep within. It may take a lot of time to reach the surface but once it does it is permanent. It is not a change of a few habits and weaknesses but a complete transformation of you. The crazy you dies and you are re-born but, no one will come to your funeral. Only you know you have died. We can change completely or change like a grain of sand falling in an hourglass. Satish Daryanani