By nature, I am very competitive and always want to win. One day, my spiritual Master told me to enjoy watching the other person win. So I started losing on purpose, and the other person did not enjoy the game, as he knew I was losing purposefully. I learned then to try to do my best to win without wanting to win in life. Try the same thing in spirituality. Go for everything, yet want nothing. The joke is: If you want nothing, then you have everything. So, lose to win. — Satish Daryanani